Remembering My Dad on Father’s Day, 2019
Remembering My Dad on Father’s Day, 2019
by his second daughter, Alice Jane-Marie Massa
For more than two decades,
I have marked Father’s Day without you
at our table, at my side.
Leaving flowers at your graveside,
warmly thinking of you–
what more can I do
to honor your greatness
on this Father’s Day, 2019?
Not just this special day,
but all days,
I remember you with lyrics of love.
I know you were the great “good luck” of my world.
You gave me the positive notes of my repertoire,
the best days, and the most cherished of memories.
On a gravestone in Roselawn are
a hummingbird and an iris,
your name–James F. Massa–
but your love and kindness
still grace and emanate from those
whose lives you touched:
we learn, lead, and love
by following your example.
If we shine,
we are once again and always
in the glow of your smile.
In Heaven,
do you have a room with a view?
Are you watching us–
watching over us?
Have you seen my precious Willow?
Have you smiled upon
your five great-grandchildren?
Have you kept the rain away
from our picnics, parades, and parties?
Have you rained
upon our gardens of life?
Have you been in the wind
that caresses us?
Do you sometimes coo
soothing words of wisdom to us
through the mourning dove?
For all that you did for us
while you walked this Earth,
I marvel at all
that you still must do
because I know you are with us,
with me,
each day;
and each day and night,
each Father’s Day,
my heart
and all hearts you have touched
are beating
with soft, unending notes
of everlasting gratitude
for you
who sat so importantly and serenely
on the front porch swing of our blessed lives.
Whether you are remembering your dad or celebrating with him today,
God bless all on this Father’s Day,
Alice and Leader Dog Willow
June 16, 2019, Sunday
Thank you, Alice, for putting into your well-chosen and heartfelt words special thoughts and feelings about our wonderful Dad. We were so blessed to be his daughters and to have celebrated Father’s Day with him and in honor of him for many years. He will never be forgotten!
Love, Mary
Hi, Mary–From your perspective as “first daughter,” your comment on this post about our dad is especially appreciated. So often I remember the words of Joanne Marietta Peperak who, at Dad’s funeral, said with her usual exuberance that Dad “was always smiling.” Her words have echoed in my mind and given me comfort and hope when I miss Dad so much.
With thanks for all, Alice and Willow
Alice, what a beautiful tribute to your dad. I can’t believe how beautiful words flow in your poem and are so full of love and respect for your dad. Love, Aunt Kathy
Hi, Aunt Kathy–If I did not know otherwise, I would think your comment is that of a teacher of English. Special thanks for your lovely comment! You were so lucky to have four older and wonderful brothers; and they were so lucky to have you as a sister.
Have a good week! Love, Alice and Willow
Loving words for an exceptionally good man. You were blessed.
Love, Fran